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בעזהי״ת
TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR SHIDDUCHIM
TM

The
Shidduch Survey

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Instant.
Accurate.
Anonymous.

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Endorsements

No names.

No profiles.

No needle.

No haystack.

Stop looking.

Instantly.

Start finding.

Endorsed by:

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Rav Yitzchok Sorotzkin
 
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Rav Yaakov Ephraim Forchheimer
Lakewood, NJ
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Rav Simcha Bunim Cohen
Lakewood, NJ
Rav Shmuel Meir Katz
Lakewood, NJ
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Rav Dov Kahan
Lakewood, NJ
Rav Uri Deutsch
Lakewood, NJ
Rav Moshe Chaim Kahan
Lakewood, NJ
Rav Noach Isssac Oelbaum
Queens, NY
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"This is going to make a lot of shidduchim."
                       -Sholomo Lewenstein, Shadchan

Our Mission

To give you an accurate suggestion 

in the quickest, most efficient, 

and comfortable manner

possible. That simple.

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Yes, we just revolutionized the shidduch process.

Time to celebrate..?

We think so :)

Survey
How It Works

HOW IT WORKS

STEP 1

Take The Shidduch Survey Above.

(It's quick, anonymous, free, and honestly, fun.)

STEP 2

When there's A match, our system Instantly Finds it and notifies us; we confirm the boy's, then the girl's interest, via text.

STEP 3

Both parties' phone numbers are given to one of our shadchanim*, (or one you know, if you prefer), and they follow up with you & Redt to the boy, as usual.

*They don't have access to your submission or the system.

Our Stats

  Our Stats 
 

99%

Filtration Rate
Meaning, out of hundreds of submissions, we give you only the best suggestions. 

8 3 %

Between the Ages of 18 to 25

31

Submissions Taken Daily
The world's most popular Shadchan? Most likely.

60/40

Girl/Boy ratio 
60% of survey's were taken by girls, 40% by boys 

2

Notification Time
The number of seconds it takes for our system to find an idea.

90%

Acceptance Rate
% of people that respond "Yes" to hearing more about the match.

Locations taken

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Overview
FAQ's

Da'as

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Not your average way of finding who's right for you
While the rest of the world is running after new ways to generate ideas.
We had an even better idea.
Humans.

Our shadchanim 
have their own, separate, platform that is meticulously organized and comprehensive. It’s called “Da'as.”
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Da'as allows them to track every person and suggestion they’ve handled, and record just what you’re looking for.

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So if you don’t love our first idea, you’ll love the second. 

UNPRECEDENTED APPROACH.

UNPRECEDENTED FEATURES.

Efficiency

Say "goodbye" to all those things that make Shidduchim stressful. 

  • Instantly receive good suggestions.

  • No more waiting on others.

  • Free from the constraints of human networking.

  • Anonymously compared to every shidduch.

Advanced

We felt we needed to optimize the shidduch scene and make it viable for the 21st Century.​

  • Advanced data analytics automatically computes your results with everyone for accurate suggestions.

  • Instantly alerted when our database has an accurate suggestion (could you be more prioritized...?)

Thorough

We don't just get to meet you, we get to know you.

  • The Survey covers Logistics, Background, Personality, Preferences, Hashkafa, and Future Interests.

  • Our questions are quick and easy, but really get to know who you are and what you want.

Confidential

It's uncomfortable to go online, so we made sure you wouldn't feel that way.

  • No profiles.

  • No names.

  • Nobody will ever see your entry.*

  • All of our data is tightly secured behind a 2-step verification login, making it virtually impossible to get into.

*Only TSS has access.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Who should take The Shidduch Survey?                    â€‹

A: The survey serves the "yeshivish" crowd, for anyone currently in Shidduchim and between the ages of 18 to 29. (We would love to accommodate others, but due to the survey's complexity and in its efforts to provide the best suggestions possible, for the time being, focusing on one specific crowd makes the most sense. We would love to expand in the future.) 

  • If I was previously married, can I take the survey?

    • A: Unfortunately, The Shidduch Survey is only able to accept entries of people who have not been previously married.

  • What happens with the answers to your survey?

    • ​A: Your answers are stored in our system and our advanced formulas match similar individuals' results. 
      None of your answers will ever leave our system, nor can they viewed by anyone, aside from The Shidduch Survey.    

  • If I take the shidduch survey am I committing myself to a date?

    • A: Not in the slightest. After both parties acknowledge their interest, one of our shadchanim, or one that you know and prefer, handles the idea, and generally, will proceed to get the girl's resume into the boy's hands, and the boy's side can then look into it and proceed as usual.

  • Does The Shidduch Survey cost money?

    • A: The shidduch survey is FREE!  If, however, our suggestion works and the shidduch is a success,  part of the shadchanus would go to us. Email us at info@theshidduchsurvey.com for payment info.

  • How will I be notified of a suggestion?

    •  A: We will text or email you to the phone number or email address you provided at the end of the survey. The text will come from the Phone # (848) 329-3957. We never call. And the email from, info@theshidduchsurvey.com.

  • Whose phone number may I provide at the end of the survey?

    • A: You can provide the phone number of whomever handles your shidduchim, for example, your parents, you don't have to leave your own.

  • Can I take the survey for someone else?

    • A: We strongly encourage the person in shidduchim to take the survey themselves, however, if you're a parent who feels they know their child well enough to answer every question that's fine; friends, however, we kindly request that you don't take it on their behalf.

  • Is any of my survey's information shared with the other party?

    • A: No. The initial notification informing you of a match doesn't share any details of the other party, all it asks is if you're interested in hearing more; and once the shadchan  begins to manage the idea it's handled as normally without any part of the survey involved.  

  • Do we use AI?

    • A: No. We are AI free and proud of it! 

  • Who runs The Shidduch Survey?

    • A: We are founded and run by Bnei Torah in Lakewood who have been personally entrusted by the endorsing gedolim. Every decision is made with Rabbinic guidance.

Our Story

Our story

We at "The Shidduch Survey" observed today's Shidduchim situation and realized it needed renewed Hishtadlus. Whether you've just started dating or have been in it for a while, you may have noticed the same trend we did: The Shidduch process is way outdated and highly inefficient. 

 

The most apparent flaw we witnessed was relying on just a few humans to successfully connect thousands. It's simply beyond any individual's, even a network's capability, to know, meet, remember, Cheshbin, communicate and orchestrate every potential Shidduch.

 

Yet, at the same time, we were left clueless as how to effectively manage the incredible weight we are responsible for carrying.
 

Enter "The Shidduch Survey."

Free, Tznius, and secure, we have created a means that allows you to be "in the Parsha" with everyone, yet anonymous, with nothing to feel reluctant or embarrassed about. "The Shidduch Survey" not only has the means to "meet & prioritize" with every Jew in the world but to accurately suggest a Shidduch as well.

In order to avoid losing the human touch, The Shidduch Survey does not cut out or substitute the human element. Once the survey finds a potential Shidduch, it is sent to one of our carefully hand-picked Shadchans to carry out after both parties' expressed interest.

We're excited to have you give "The Shidduch Survey" a confident shot and hope we can B"Ezras Hashem make Shidduchim easier for you. We wish you much Hatz'lacha!

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